"Stopped" just means the node service is not running. FileBot itself is a command-line tool, so it'll always show up as "Started" even though nothing is running in the background.
What Synology shows as Started / Stopped is entirely defined by the return value of this call:
https://github.com/filebot/filebot-node ... status#L15
Node Showing Stopped by Actually Started
Re: Node Showing Stopped by Actually Started
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